God send his Holly spirit to the mother and father of the most loved daughter Dumoluhle. God send them peace and prosperity as they struggle to cope with the grief of waking up in the middle of the night to find that Dumo is not around.
God,the only one who knows what he will do with Dumo,make the parents understand that life does not end with death but that death is a temporary stance of human state after which Dumo will smile and run to meet Mum and Dad one day at Gods time and schedule.
God, not comforters.God, not councellors.God, not the police.God,not humans remind the parents of Dumo that he knew Dumo before Sindi"s greatest grand father was born and God knows Sindi"s greatest grand children.
Find peace in God Don. All humans have a doubting subconscious when it comes to God issues but l would advise you to sit alone and think deeply about your plans for year 2171. If you find that in that year, no legal advisor or closest friend or Sindi can help you plan for your breakfast on the cold morning of 27-05-2171, but only God has a plan for that morning. Mdawini you know what I am talking about.
My boy was born in 1997,and I dont want to imagine what I would do if I were put in your circumstances, but that does not stop me from recomending Gods own solution to you because it is the only reality that lasts for ever.
For Sithole, I would reserve my opinion because it might not be nice to say while still you are in pain. But listen and trust what God would say about him.
God provide a peacefull sleep for innocent beautifull Dumo, and the strenght to carry on for Sindi and Donald. amen